In the midst of everything, you must be willing to do the hard stuff. Ask yourself who you are, what you believe and what you want out of life. Then, when you figure out some of the toughies in your own life, you can add other things without the stress.
I spent many years lost. I didn't know what to do or how to behave. I wasn't sure who I wanted to be. After I began learning about God and comparing Him to what I've always known, it wasn't hard to decide what I wanted my life to be about. I preached for over 10 years, but it wasn't as much about the platform as it was about the ability to touch and change lives. That's what I want out of my life, for my pain to have purpose. The only way that can happen is if I use it to empower other people. I want to build people, to give someone a reason to hope. I'm 37 and I'm living my dream and walking in my purpose, even when I'm wobbling. Now, you have to make that same decision to regain control and define yourself. Then free yourself to walk it all out.
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